Compare This Scenario
With Your First Sex Experience
The picture of Sex
loomed very large before me from all the
sex stories, “eavdropings” and
“peepings” on sex, and the free sex
videos I had watched growing up. I looked forward to that special moment
when I will experience that bliss I have heard so much about; an experience to
always reminisce in my sex world.
I looked forward to
losing my virginity in a free sex unlike some of my friends who told me their
experience at a brothel. I day-dreamed and night-dreamed about how it would be.
It created much anticipation in my head that and hard-on constantly distended my boxer and
trouser flaps angling for a teen sex.
Yet, when the day
came, I was very excited and before I could say Uh, Ah, I offloaded my cum to
my utter disappointment. I have quite nothing to call pleasure about my
experience. What I always remember is Mimi, saying: “Ah, why didn’t you hold
it? You have soiled my dress and the bed sheets.” I was deeply embarrassed. My penis went limp.
The above scenario
is quite common with amateur sex. After all the built up anticipation of a once
in a life time experience some people discover that their first sexual
experience is nothing extraordinary. In my case, Mimi was not a virgin, she was
matured in sex and so did not experience pains and bleeding,
which could unnerve a young girl and steal the expected wonderful feeling of sex
for the very first time Mimi was my sex teacher.
I have also heard of
a situation where a young girl who had sex for the first time was so much hurt
and bleeding carried on as if it would not stop. Her partner must have given
her a rough sex. Alarmed, the girl notified her Mom and was rushed to
the hospital for treatment. It is very wrong to sex a virgin in haste without extracting the
natural lubricants produced by her body.
To reduce the soreness
and embarrassment in first sexual intercourse, I suggest that you give more
attention to foreplay: Kissing, and discovering her pleasure points with both
your fingers and mouth will soften her up for penetration much much later after
both of you have been greatly aroused before having sex.
Even then, it is
advisable to have an industrial lubricant, which when applied to the vagina
easies penetration as you insert your penis little by little till the hymen is
broken to let you into her. A lubricant will further ensure that even if she
loses her natural lubrication, there will be no dryness to cause abrasion, pain
and bleeding.
Now it will seem as
if having sex is so free and without risk. Far from it. If you are older
than your partner, be sure that she is not a minor and that she is in agreement with you, she is ready
for sex. However, bear in mind that a
situation of regret could result from your sexual act, so precaution is called
for to prevent both unwanted pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases
whether you are doing sex in the vagina or you are have anal sex.
A female’s first sex
experience could even be more traumatic if you are not considerate. The
myth that women do not forget the person who deflowered them is not really in
terms of unforgettable enjoyment. Unlike their male partners, to a major
extent, sexual enjoyment for the female increases with age because bodily and
emotional maturity have so much to do
with their sexual enjoyment.
Take time, therefore
to do sex to her so that both of
you will not be disappointed if novices, and if you, the male, is experienced,
so that she does not get traumatized in her first time sex.
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